Lately I’ve had a string of days where nothing has come easily. Actually I think I’m going on more like a month. Having five kids, 3 of which are special needs, our calendar is literally jam packed with appointments, therapy, games, school functions, church stuff, with times in between to eat, sleep, and bathe if we’re lucky. I would say 2-3 days of each week is literally back to back items that are all super time-dependent.
Soooo, what better time for God to teach me to slow down and smell the roses right?!
For those who may not know, I’m a RN by vocation, a flight nurse more specifically (or at least I was until this whole writing, speaking, momming thing started a couple years ago), so my life as a whole has been defined by high-speed, high-energy, high-adrenaline. Its not overstating the matter to say that much of my adult life was consumed by life or death split second decisions.
Time matters, seconds count, plans going smoothly is paramount- and my A-to-B personality thrives within that structure.
Yet God has been teaching me more. Not that any of those kinds of things are bad, that kind of mindset can be super helpful and effective in fact… but He’s been dragging my feet, usurping my plans, and downright challenging my patience literally non-stop lately.
You know that t-shirt that says, “You’re testing the Jesus in me!” ? What happens when it’s God doing that testing?
These last thirty days have been exhausting and trying to say the least. Nothing, and I do mean nothing, has gone easily. Nothing’s gone according to plan. Everything on my schedule has had to be moved, sometimes multiple times. Much of what we do is dependent on other stuff or people doing what they need to; so one thing fails or is delayed and before you know it, the whole house of dominoes has fallen and you find yourself vaguely looking around for the hidden cameras wondering which “Totally Hidden” reality show you’ve inadvertently found yourself in.
Welcome to my life. Anybody relate?
Any yet God has been good time me and given me so much inexplicable patience. I’ve taken more deep breaths, given more smiles, rearranged more appointments, given more grace and mercy to people (and myself!) than I ever have in my life. I’ve been forced to slow down and smell the proverbial roses. After all, unlike my previous jobs, <almost> none of this stuff is life and death.
I admit it’s been a total mind-set change for me. And I’m loving the aroma of seeing Him work in me through those undeserved smiles. The scent of His grace and mercy working in and through and towards me. It’s been astoundingly peaceful despite what on paper looks life a mess.
More times than I can tell I’ve found myself humming the words to an old Psalty the Psalmbook song (totally dating myself here!)
In His time, In HIs time,
He makes all things beautiful
In his time
Lord please show me everyday
As you’re teaching me your way
That you do just what you say
In your time
In Your time, in Your time
You make all things beautiful
In Your time
Lord my life to You I bring
May each song I have to sing
Be to You a lovely thing
In Your time.
I’ve been keenly aware in the last few years of my life that I have this sub-conscious timeline in my head of what I should be doing, where I should be going, what goals I should be meeting, etc. etc. etc. Yet His time is so very different from mine! And more poignantly, He will take care of HIS goals for me in HIS time… not mine.
Whether it be a mundane doctor’s appointment that’s a no-go or getting my first multi-book publishing contact (insert wink wink and lots of prayers here!) I can rest in knowing He is in control and He does, indeed make all His plans, all His people, all His creation- beautiful in His time.
Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD . “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” NLT