Lately my kids have been on a hide-and-seek kick. Generally from each other, though occasionally they just <love> to hide from me… especially when they’re playing and I’m not even aware that I’m in the game.
They think it’s hilarious to hide when I call them.
The other day after a particularly frustrating round of me calling and looking for my oldest (all the while not knowing she had decided it was hide-and-seek time) I came to my momma-whits-end. I had started by simply telling her it was time to get in the car. She disappeared. After 5 minutes I was generally yelling around the house telling her is was time to get in the car. After another 5 minutes I was actively searching for her and yelling even louder to come.get.in.the.car. We were late. I was frustrated. I had finally realized somewhere along the line that she was in fact, playing the game and not being <completely> disobedient.
And yet she was being completely disobedient.
And now several people would be late to a function that would make many others have to change their plans as well.
That night my husband and I were talking over the general hide-and-seek situation. As I was bemoaning her general lack of behavior and how it vastly changed the outcomes of our afternoon, God gently reminded me that I had done the very same thing to Him… on more occasions to count.
How many times had He told me to do something and I didn’t? I ran away. I hid. Like my daughter I literally went the other direction and disappeared. How much of His Word, meant for my good and instruction, have I disobeyed? Sometimes inadvertently, sometimes I was simply ‘playing’ a game and not listening, and other times I intentionally and purposefully didn’t listen.
I was immediately convicted that my own games of hide-and-seek with my Father have (I’m sure) caused my fair share of frustration and Fatherly angst. Several situations in which I didn’t do what I was supposed to ran across my memory-banks. Ugh. I wonder how many people were depending on me to obey? I wonder how much blessing I lost out on because I didn’t listen to what I was told? I pondered who I made ‘late’ and who had to change their ‘plans’ because I was MIA. Innumerable I imagine.
But God is good, and even in those dark thoughts He reminded me of something else. That just like I had done for my daughter (probably a bit less angry…) He will also come looking for me. When I was lost, He came after me. Yelling my name, searching high and low.
Better yet, HE is never hard to find, because He never plays games with me. If I need Him, He is there- right there, always ready and willing to be together. There are no games, no hide-and-seek, no wondering where He could be.
In that moment and in the moments after, I have found that wonderfully reassuring. I have a God and a Father who looks for me and is always with me. He will never leave me or forsake me. He will not tire of searching for His wayward daughter, nitwit that I may be at times.
Deut. 31:8 “It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.” ESV
Jeremiah 29:13 “You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart.” ESV
Isaiah 41:10 “…fear not, for I am with you;
be not dismayed, for I am your God;
I will strengthen you, I will help you,
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” ESV
Amen and Amen!